My Fiance Asked Me To Get Rid Of My Pregnancy But Wants His Ex To Keep Her Own

I have been seeing this guy for 9 months
and in those 9 months, most of the time
we had s3x, it was unprotected. In fact I
was the one who always insisted that he
used protection to avoid any issues.

He always claimed to get carried away. I
didn’t want to be too pushy on the
condom matter because we are both in
our 30s and we were looking at
something serious. I once teased him
saying “what if I got pregnant” and his
reply was that there was no better time
than now. I was still being careful and
tried to take contraceptives to avoid
issues.

During the relationship though I noticed
that we weren’t flowing much in terms
of how we relate to each other…he was
so quiet and I being a rather quiet
person too, took to going online to find
questions to ask a new boyfriend in
order to get to know him better. I
observed however that he was very open
and talkative with other people. I also
observed that we hardly ever talked but
he would ping and ping.

I mentioned this to our mutual friend
through whom I met him and she said it
was probably because we were still
getting to know each other (after 9
months). We both also agreed that the
fact that we live in different towns may
also be a reason for our not being close.
He lives in Benin while I live in Lagos
For me, it was time to draw the
relationship to a close but he had a
surgery which I was unaware of at first
and this mutual friend of ours called me
to say that I should visit him, adding that
I should remember he had no steady
girlfriend. I did, thinking that we could
work things out, but in my opinion, we
still didn’t bond, even though I was
surprised that he could gather strength to
make love to me while I was nursing
him ,lol. I attributed our not bonding as I
would have liked, to the fact that he was
ill and had just been discharged from
hospital.

I went back to base but missed my
period after 3 weeks. I called him to
inform him but he refused to get in
touch till after 4 days, only for him to
tell me that there were issues
According to him, he had unprotected
s3x with his ex who he dated for 4 years,
recently and she is also pregnant. Now
he wants her to keep her pregnancy and
asked me to get rid of mine, so
depressing!

What would you do if it were you?

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